A new book review...
My last break up I read the book He's just not that into you, this one I needed something stronger so I am reading It's Not Me, It's You: The Ultimate Break up Book. This book hits the nail on the head. It even says that the only way a break up doesn't hurt is if you didn't care about the person. That explains why I'm still losing sleep over it. It also says that you may never get over it, you just have to keep living. There was a quote on one of the pages I really liked, it said
"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds: it dies if weariness, of withering, of tarnishing." -- Anais Nin
I guess that really says it all. The book really does kinda help. It has percentages of the things people do after a break up. I'm glad to see that I don't follow most of the things. Like, I have yet to drive by his apartment to see if he's there or if anyone new is there. I haven't did the whole call and hang up repeatedly. I haven't questioned his friends about what he is doing. I don't care...well I do, I just don't want to know.
Anyway, it's good to have a book to help you out. And it's kinda funny too...
Well, I'm gonna go out on the lake with some new friends. I'm not bailing on them this time. It should be fun... the choice is the boat or wave runners.... hummm.... decisions, decisions....
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